h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Be careful reading this posting about rape, because it can be shocking.
Not because of me, but because of what I have seen.



A few days ago, I surfed at a website about "confessions" and it appeared to be less dignified as I had hoped for. I had written "talking to oneself" at Google.

One guy described that he had really agressive sexual feelings when he has to pay in the supermarket.Every time. He asked how to cope with it.

Besides good advise he got from some women, there were several men who really stimulated him to take what he wants, "because they're all sluts anyway. And after that, you let a dog do the same with her again".

I was deeply shocked álso because I heard an echo from the world of porn. It is about 10 to 15 percent of men who feel confirmed and encouraged by porn in what I just described.

This fact should get more say in rules about porn.The words I just quoted, are words that are deeply rooted in the world of cybersex;"sluts who are waiting to be, etc" . Sluts this and sluts that.

I am not totally against porn and I learned at an erotic site for women(!) that things don't always are as they seem te be. That's in their case for me really convincing. I also do know women personally ,who watch porn once and a while in their own home.

But it remains dangerous stuff for weak souls and I worked in prisons with such guys and we - as society - should realize our contribution
in the mess of unvoluntary, agressive sexuality. We cannot escape our own attitude in society and just saying "no, no, no" is hiding as well.


Greetings from Amsterdam

I wrote it, because I join(ed) a forum topic about rape.

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