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aka Bel - A87832164 Started conversation Mar 31, 2004
Do you have the impression that you spent most of your life waiting for something wonderful to happen ?
Welcome to the club
Did you, at some point in your life, decide it was high time to take some action, did you choose something you weren't experienced in, and did it end in disaster?
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Are you now back to the former ways of waiting and hoping again, mainly because there seem to be no other options?
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But , you are not alone
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toybox Posted Mar 31, 2004
Mmmh...
I don't have that feeling I've been waiting for a large part of my life. I rather wonder whether I've made the right choice at some point
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aka Bel - A87832164 Posted Mar 31, 2004
Well, perhaps it's just a question of age and gender?
I really can't tell, but I think it's education and umh, what's the word, expectations of society
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Laura Posted Mar 31, 2004
Hmmm, I don't wait, I take action first. Sometimes I get things right, sometimeswrong,but the lowest points of my life have always just turned out to be a mid-point of a direction change I hadn't seen coming.
Many wonderful things have happened, so have many nasty things but there is always something I can learn and use. When faced with a bad situation I don't regret but start working to make things better again, knowing full well that this will probably be different from the way things were before.
I'll give everything a try, though it took a little while to learn not to use 'but I can't' as an excuse not to. The subject I'm studying at uni was actually what was on the page of a randomly opened prospectus.
There are always options, but they seem to be very good at hiding themselves and I only tend to find them by walking into them.
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aka Bel - A87832164 Posted Mar 31, 2004
I really would like to try making things better again, but somehow I only manage to make them worse, so now I don't dare anymore
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Laura Posted Mar 31, 2004
Sometimes I know exactly what to do, sometimes I don't. It's then that I find myself trying to figer out what to do only to discover that a friend is way ahead of me. I'm not very good at asking for help, but fortunately I've friends who don't need to be asked.
Doesn't always work but I'm always learning and can try again. I simply can't accept that when things are bad, that is the way they are and that I'll just have to live with it.
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aka Bel - A87832164 Posted Mar 31, 2004
That's exactly the problem: that I can't accept , but promised to, so now I just don't know what to do
As I said, all my attempts only seemed to make things worse, I obviously tend to say all the wrong things
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pheloxi | is it time to wear a hat? | Posted Apr 1, 2004
when you stress something you want might fly by!
when you relax something you want might come by!
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aka Bel - A87832164 Posted Apr 1, 2004
hi pheloxi*, but then that's what it's all about : waiting
But sometimes it's just hard to be passive
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BATWING1 Minister of Mirth Merriment and Insanity (portfolio) Posted Apr 1, 2004
don`t sit about waiting for things to happen......they won`t
it`s all about having the self-confidence to do things and if you get it wrong at least you gain experience and hopefully learn
i`m still learning at my age
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Laura Posted Apr 1, 2004
Yes, ty's right
What I took pheloxi to mean is that if you're too stressed it's too easy to miss an oppertunity that's right in front of you.
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aka Bel - A87832164 Posted Apr 1, 2004
Yeah,just never stop learning, will prevent you from getting the Alzheimer's disease
But you know, one or two lessens are really hard to learn especially when you don't exactly understand what they're all about
Btw, want to get me again by offering me that early in the day, after the amount of I had last night ?
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aka Bel - A87832164 Posted Apr 1, 2004
Unc, I can't see an opportunity right now,but there's a German saying " Die Hoffnung stirbt zuletzt" ( hope dies last )
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BATWING1 Minister of Mirth Merriment and Insanity (portfolio) Posted Apr 1, 2004
hi belana
what are you hoping to achieve that you can`t see
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aka Bel - A87832164 Posted Apr 1, 2004
ty,it's a bit too complicated to tell here, but if you have the same idea of what life's all about as I have, you can certainly guess
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