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aka Bel - A87832164

Do you have the impression that you spent most of your life waiting for something wonderful to happen ?
Welcome to the club smiley - biggrin
Did you, at some point in your life, decide it was high time to take some action, did you choose something you weren't experienced in, and did it end in disaster?
Welcome to the club smiley - cheers
Are you now back to the former ways of waiting and hoping again, mainly because there seem to be no other options?
Welcome to the clubsmiley - bubbly
But smiley - cheerup, you are not alonesmiley - ok
smiley - somersault


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Post 2

toybox

Mmmh...

I don't have that feeling I've been waiting for a large part of my life. I rather wonder whether I've made the right choice at some point smiley - erm

smiley - bubbly


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Post 3

~:*-Venus-*:~

Well you know where i stand on this smiley - erm
I think i'm a founder member of that club smiley - sadface


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Post 4

aka Bel - A87832164

Well, perhaps it's just a question of age and gender?
I really can't tell, but I think it's education and umh, what's the word, expectations of society smiley - erm


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Post 5

Laura

Hmmm, I don't wait, I take action first. Sometimes I get things right, sometimeswrong,but the lowest points of my life have always just turned out to be a mid-point of a direction change I hadn't seen coming.

Many wonderful things have happened, so have many nasty things but there is always something I can learn and use. When faced with a bad situation I don't regret but start working to make things better again, knowing full well that this will probably be different from the way things were before.

I'll give everything a try, though it took a little while to learn not to use 'but I can't' as an excuse not to. smiley - smiley The subject I'm studying at uni was actually what was on the page of a randomly opened prospectus. smiley - laugh

There are always options, but they seem to be very good at hiding themselves and I only tend to find them by walking into them. smiley - laugh


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Post 6

aka Bel - A87832164

I really would like to try making things better again, but somehow I only manage to make them worse, so now I don't dare anymoresmiley - sadface


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Post 7

Laura

Sometimes I know exactly what to do, sometimes I don't. It's then that I find myself trying to figer out what to do only to discover that a friend is way ahead of me. I'm not very good at asking for help, but fortunately I've friends who don't need to be asked.

Doesn't always work but I'm always learning and can try again. I simply can't accept that when things are bad, that is the way they are and that I'll just have to live with it.


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aka Bel - A87832164

That's exactly the problem: that I can't accept , but promised to, so now I just don't know what to dosmiley - wah
As I said, all my attempts only seemed to make things worse, I obviously tend to say all the wrong things smiley - sadface


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Post 9

toybox

smiley - cuddlesmiley - cheerup


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Post 10

aka Bel - A87832164

smiley - tasmiley - smooch


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Post 11

pheloxi | is it time to wear a hat? |

when you stress something you want might fly by!
when you relax something you want might come by!


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Post 12

Laura

Yes, very true smiley - biggrin


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Post 13

aka Bel - A87832164

hi pheloxi*, but then that's what it's all about : waitingsmiley - smiley
But sometimes it's just hard to be passivesmiley - sadface


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Post 14

BATWING1 Minister of Mirth Merriment and Insanity (portfolio)

don`t sit about waiting for things to happen......they won`t

it`s all about having the self-confidence to do things and if you get it wrong at least you gain experience and hopefully learn

i`m still learning at my age


smiley - biggrin

smiley - stiffdrink


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Post 15

Laura

Yes, smiley - batty's right smiley - biggrin

What I took pheloxi to mean is that if you're too stressed it's too easy to miss an oppertunity that's right in front of you.


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aka Bel - A87832164

Yeah,just never stop learning, will prevent you from getting the Alzheimer's disease smiley - ok
But you know, one or two lessens are really hard to learn especially when you don't exactly understand what they're all aboutsmiley - winkeye
Btw, want to get me smiley - drunk again by offering me smiley - stiffdrink that early in the day, after the amount of smiley - redwine I had last night ?smiley - laugh


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Post 17

BATWING1 Minister of Mirth Merriment and Insanity (portfolio)

moi! get you drunk??? why would i want to do that smiley - evilgrin


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Post 18

aka Bel - A87832164

Unc, I can't see an opportunity right nowsmiley - sadface,but there's a German saying " Die Hoffnung stirbt zuletzt" ( hope dies last )smiley - ok


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Post 19

BATWING1 Minister of Mirth Merriment and Insanity (portfolio)

hi belana

what are you hoping to achieve that you can`t see


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Post 20

aka Bel - A87832164

smiley - batty,it's a bit too complicated to tell here, but if you have the same idea of what life's all about as I have, you can certainly guesssmiley - winkeye


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