h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

I've been chucked

Sorry to hear that. But if it is any consolation, usually this means that the relationship wouldn't have worked anyhow, so although painful, it is probably for the best.

Cold comfort, I know. But anyhow, you are about to move on to a new school and stuff anyhow. A new life. So try to focus on that. And remember that you *are* a lovely and lovable person.

kisses,
az

I can't believe this! What's wrong with him?!!

Keep your head up high

-m3


(PS - In case this new moniker confuses you; this is Fnord, in disguise....)

Stay high and proud Gen. Remember that you're a brilliant person and if it wasn't working that this is probably going to be better in the long run. In the short term, eat chocolate and try to see friends as much as possible.

I went to see him. We're still good friends atleast. He thinks he messed up loads and he wants to start fresh- i mean he thinks he messed up college and wants to sort his life out. He chucked me coz he feels he doesnt see enough of me... feels like shit though. Im here wondering if he was waiting for my one year to be up. Or if he wanted to do it 4 months ago before i had an abortion. Or anything else. I just got off the phone from Matthew - the first person to make me smile all day... he said next time i should get a boy who's not smaller than me

Try not to do too much over aalysing of it or all the wondering will tear you up inside...

good things...
*i have a wonderful new friend - he'll be better as a friend im sure
*i can try out other peps
*i can find someone taller
*i have money to spend on me
*i dont have to get that one year present

bad things...
*i wanted to get that one year present - i wanted to make it there
*im alone now.... really alone and i hate it
*im the only one of my RL friends who is single now...
*he said he loved me and still fancies me... so why did he dump me. He cant have ment that. But he says he did. Did he ever love me?

I know all those 'did he/she ever really love me?' questions I've been there myself, don't give into those paranoid thoughts...

Ditto. Since this seems to be a girlie thread, I'll leave now. Before I do - there's not much more I can say that's less simple than you have my total sympathy; and you do.

Thanks everyone... i feel so messed up. Its horrible...

it brought everything back about the abortion and i cant stand all this thinking about it.

I'm sorry hunni...

dont be... i'd be ok if something had actually gone wrong, but i cant find a reason and he isnt giving me one. He just keeps saying how much i mean to him and how much it hurt him to see me cry. It doesnt help it makes it worse coz if he cares that much why arent we still there?

Perhaps stopping looking for a reason is the best thing to do. His 'reasons' are confusing to you. So leave them. Since they can't tell you anything.

People are weird! Okay? And they say often say things that don't make sense because *they* don't know what the hell they are trying to say.

This should not affect how you feel about yourself. If this guy has made a decision, then fine. Go with the decision and how that affects you now not having a boyfriend. Do NOT go with trying to figure out *why* he decided this because he probably doesn't even know himself. And it has nothing to do with how lovely and lovable you are as a person.

Perhaps he does still care. But not enough. Too bad. That's life. You have quite a lot of other people caring about you. Why not focus on them instead of the one person that you wish could care more?

You didn't do anything wrong. You could not ever do anything *wrong*. But sometimes relationships have a time and place value, that they mattered for the time they existed, and afterwards, one moves on. So, do try to move on.

az

oh sorry, my first sentence should have read that it wasn't the best thing to do.

oops
az

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