Live Happy, Live longer!!!
Created | Updated Mar 5, 2006
A.R.Shams's 'Creative Living Spirit' Reflection:
In the editorial of a daily metropolitan of the Middle East on 5th instant expressed its views on the above proposition and that made me astonished first and then I controlled my emotional feelings by rewinding my memory remembering some of the facts I could observe during my lifetime.
Since my childhood I happened to study life pattern of a number of families, one for example, an aged couple, the husband 70's and the wife 60's were heard of on many occasions in which the husband used to be thundered upon by the wife for this and that.
The husband has never been found to agitate for what she did. Latter what happened that the wife is no more on earth leaving him in his sound health condition except some rare negligible complications. He is happily living with bright hopes to live and enjoy life.
The report brought out in the editorial doesn't seem to be very much a fact. Because it claimed about the research report that if the man spouse keeps silent without any agitation when his spouse keeps on quarreling with him, he develops some artery and coronary complications and he may expire far before time of his normal death.
Whereas, it seems it's applicable for a woman who quarrels and those symptomatic conditions can happen to her and tragic end may there be for her earlier and that exactly happened to the lady of this aforementioned family.
There are some other families in which both the spouses set aside a time for an encounter regularly and punctually. They have been found living healthy and lengthy. Surprising!
I don't understand what may be the reason behind those couples who expire earlier who seldom had agitation or any sort of encounter.
So has it become need for the man to agitate and woman not to for living a happy and lengthy living with peace of mind, why and how?
In the editorial of a daily metropolitan of the Middle East on 5th instant expressed its views on the above proposition and that made me astonished first and then I controlled my emotional feelings by rewinding my memory remembering some of the facts I could observe during my lifetime.
Since my childhood I happened to study life pattern of a number of families, one for example, an aged couple, the husband 70's and the wife 60's were heard of on many occasions in which the husband used to be thundered upon by the wife for this and that.
The husband has never been found to agitate for what she did. Latter what happened that the wife is no more on earth leaving him in his sound health condition except some rare negligible complications. He is happily living with bright hopes to live and enjoy life.
The report brought out in the editorial doesn't seem to be very much a fact. Because it claimed about the research report that if the man spouse keeps silent without any agitation when his spouse keeps on quarreling with him, he develops some artery and coronary complications and he may expire far before time of his normal death.
Whereas, it seems it's applicable for a woman who quarrels and those symptomatic conditions can happen to her and tragic end may there be for her earlier and that exactly happened to the lady of this aforementioned family.
There are some other families in which both the spouses set aside a time for an encounter regularly and punctually. They have been found living healthy and lengthy. Surprising!
I don't understand what may be the reason behind those couples who expire earlier who seldom had agitation or any sort of encounter.
So has it become need for the man to agitate and woman not to for living a happy and lengthy living with peace of mind, why and how?
