Hi I'm a 40 something year old gay man, who has been happily in a long term monogomous relationship for 11 years.

Whilst my body may be that age the brain and soul inside it fluctates from being about age 10 to about my physical age - is this just a man thing?
Is it a sign of "shreik" getting old? Is the secret of staying young in your attitude or is it the moisturiser you use?

We used to live in London (it is just so damn expensive) but have now moved down to the Kent Coast. (See my journal below for an update)

In my spare time I enjoy cycling, keep fit, cooking, reading (mostly SFandF), computer games, building scale models and well just loads of things.

I work in the Insurance Industry as a Business Analyst, but seem to have drifted into that wierd land that is inhabited by large scale IT Projects. I have been on a 6 month secondment to our sister company in Brussels, Belgium working as an IT Testing Manager. then I worked as Business Transformation Manager and Training Manager on another large cross border IT project and now I am working as corporate Change Manager.

I have in my time, been a Performance Analyst doing a lot of VBA coding in Excel & Access, an Insurance Underwriter, Claims Inspector, Account Manager, worked as a gardener, a warehouseman, a barman, a cellarman, run a club & run a business with my boyfriend.

I am also one of the senior trade union reps (Amicus - formerly MSF and AEEU) in our UK company - a role I have carried out for 17 years now and am also involved in the European Works Council for the group as a whole.


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