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Dealing with a dying relative

Post 21

Andy Barber

Thank you. The information you've provided has been so very useful. Just knowing there is help out there is big boost for me.

I don't know what to say or how I can thank you enough.

Andy


Dealing with a dying relative

Post 22

Granny Weatherwax - ACE - Hells Belle, Mother-in-Law from the Pit - Haunting near you on Saturday

Don't worry about thanks smiley - hug just let me know how things are going. How is your Dad?


Dealing with a dying relative

Post 23

Andy Barber

No that good as of late. This week he got a blood-cot in his leg and he's lost all feeling in it. Plus he's now down from 9st about 6 months ago to 7st!

The worst thing, for me anyway, is the feeling of 'wanting to do something, but knowing that there's nothing you can do'

He's also got a McMillan Nurse now, I sorted that with the GP this week. Plus, he's got some respite care next month to give my mum a break from it all.

So, we're finally getting some form of help. smiley - smiley

I really can't thank you enough for the help and support you've offered me.


Dealing with a dying relative

Post 24

Granny Weatherwax - ACE - Hells Belle, Mother-in-Law from the Pit - Haunting near you on Saturday

No problem, try and make sure your Mom gets a good break. It's bound to be taking it out of her. It might be worthwhile for her to get a check up. Tell her Granny's mithering smiley - smiley


Dealing with a dying relative

Post 25

Lighthousegirl - back on board

* leaves a few smiley - hug's for Andy and his Mum *


Dealing with a dying relative

Post 26

Granny Weatherwax - ACE - Hells Belle, Mother-in-Law from the Pit - Haunting near you on Saturday

smiley - smoochs as well smiley - tea


Dealing with a dying relative

Post 27

Andy Barber

Sorry I haven't been on for awhile. My Dad died, peacefully in his sleep at home, about 3 weeks ago. I've been going through the griefing thing..hence the reason I haven't been on.

Thanks you for your wonderful support during this difficult period for me. At least I know he's out of the pain now, and that gives me some comfort.


Dealing with a dying relative

Post 28

Granny Weatherwax - ACE - Hells Belle, Mother-in-Law from the Pit - Haunting near you on Saturday

smiley - hugsmiley - cuddle and smiley - rose for your mom.

Remember him as he was, fit and healthy & celebrate all the good things he did.

I'm always here if you or your mom need me.

smiley - smooch

Trisha


Dealing with a dying relative

Post 29

Andy Barber

Thank you, I will. I want to tell you that I appreciate the kindness you have shown during a difficult period of my life.

I will always remember him, and when I'm not remember then he sleeps in my mind.

Andy


Dealing with a dying relative

Post 30

Lighthousegirl - back on board

smiley - hug Andy

I was sorry to read your news smiley - rose

I think thats a beautiful way to remember him

I am here for you too

smiley - hug

Light


Dealing with a dying relative

Post 31

Granny Weatherwax - ACE - Hells Belle, Mother-in-Law from the Pit - Haunting near you on Saturday

smiley - hug Andy, if you want to talk off-site, there's an email address on my space.


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