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*Princess*of*Hearts*

Can you please help me I've a friend on here who post emails on to my space useing he has put a thing on my space called the real hilary and as i Cannot report this useing the report button as i'm a digibox user and can't acess most stuff on here could you please help me he has invaded my journals with Lies about me also putting nasty stuff up on one journal entry
called off on my holidays
Can you please help me My friend 's said you beable to help me as
Solcuerda has been nothink but a pest from day one on here i try make friends with nice new ppl and this one has spread alot of lies about me.
Please look at the message he left on my space and you will see he has put lies and other personal stuff up thats not suppose to be there also isn't it against h2g2 rules for someone to say your name on here.


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SolCuerda

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Whoami - iD dislikes punctuation

Hi, Princess of Hearts. Hi, SolCuerda. My name is Whoami? smiley - cake, and I'm an h2g2 Ace.

Princess of Hearts:

I'll go take a look. smiley - hug You're welcome to talk to me about anything that's bothering you.


SolCuerda:

I'm not sure what exactly your problem is, but the fact is that you've posted things here which are clearly offensive. I'm going to see what the Moderators think about them. h2g2 is not the place to wage a hate war. You seem to be wanting to point out that Princess is breaking the <./>HouseRules</.>. Having your full name and email address on your space is not in itself against the House Rules. However, being rude or victimising another Researcher on site is against the rules.

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I am going to do everything I can to help you two sort this all out. h2g2 is not the place for this. I am not going to take sides, I am impartial. I don't know who is telling the truth. What I do know is that at present only one of you is using the site as an excuse to have a go at the other in a nasty, offensive way. I'm going to start by having the insults removed, if the Moderators agree.

Whoami? smiley - cake


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Whoami - iD dislikes punctuation

Oh, and SolCuerda, if you really want to leave, you can just do so. No-one is making you stay. I hope that won't be necessary, though.

Whoami? smiley - cake


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Mort - a middle aged Girl Interrupted

*waves to everyone smiley - smiley*

Hi Princess and SolCuerdo

I am sorry that you guys are having problems which stem from a RL situation. These things happen.

I have some advice for both of you because I don't know the full story and also I DONT WANT TO!!!

My advice is this.

Delete each other from your friends lists so that you are not automatically informed of each others posts.

ACCEPT that you are no longer getting on as friends but continue to enjoy h2g2 and all the good stuff it has to offer. There are 130,000 researchers - with 200 active everyday so there are plenty of people to chat to and make friends with so you dont need to speak to each other.

I have yikes'd any post that I found offensive - regardless of who sent them - I do this with any posts I come accross so it is not a personal thing against either of you and don't blame each other for it!!

h2g2 has so much to offer so spend some time to look about and find some other areas and clubs to join so you dont run into each other all the time. <./>thepost</.>smiley - thepost has a list of them.

We are a happy site and want to keep it that way.

I hope this will be of help to both of you smiley - smiley

Mort


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Whoami - iD dislikes punctuation

Hi Mort! smiley - smiley Glad to see I'm not the only one here! smiley - smileysmiley - cake


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*Princess*of*Hearts*

Oh Thankyou everyone that has Helped me I am realy Greatful To you all I joined here in 2000 a clever friend told me about the site and i have made lots of nice friends on here sinse and I don't come on here to argue with anyone I have enough of that in my real life family my brother I Likes to get on with everyone Thankyou fr helping me Girl's and Guy's
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Whoami - iD dislikes punctuation

It must have been fun on a Digibox in 2000. smiley - sadface

Anyway, glad to be of service!
I've been targeted before by someone in my school.
It's often that people are unhappy overall as much as unhappy at you.
h2g2 allows people to be unhappy, just not rude. smiley - smiley

Whoami? smiley - cake


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SolCuerda

Cheers for snipping my messages. We all say things we later regret. I'd prefer a "delete" button, so messages we later want removed can be removed, like we do with emails, instead of relying on moderators to do it for us, saves you work aswell! Any plans to introduce this?


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Mort - a middle aged Girl Interrupted

Hi SolCuerdo,

I know what you mean - I sometimes post out of anger or irritation and then wish i had just walked away and said nothing!. Unfortunately because of the way the site works the threads (or conversation numbers) are all interelated so i dont know how feasible it would be but i am sure it has been mentioned before.

My best advice would be to mention it at <./>Development-Features</.> and see what they say. But i am certain it has been brought up before and the answer was, that is why there is a preview button so you can check posts first before you send them. However, that doesnt help when you post something which you later regret (and we all do it!)

From the conversation earlier ...

what you could do is just not log in anymore under this id and register again and use a different name. Many of us - myself included have more than one account so if you choose a different nickname then you can enjoy the site as a new person and no-one will know who you are!

But this is such a great site with so much to offer that we hate to lose a researcher.

And if anyone needs any help finding groups or things they are interested in then i am more than happy to help and find the appropriate links to them. And that includes everybody!!

Hope this helps

smiley - cheers

Mort


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