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Thorn Started conversation Jul 11, 2012
As my key research project gets closer to completion I pause to reflect on the good and bad times I had during working on it.
I had a number of my relatives give me unsolicited 'advice' they thought it was stupid and silly and so was my field of study in their opinion and furthermore why didn't I just start over completely from square one and study something else.
I had my research professor and a few other people who weren't my relatives encourage me and tell me the writing in my drafts was a good start and to keep going.
I had my father throw a weird tantrum that he didn't like I was given research projects and even more disliked the idea I may stand an okay chance at getting published in a respectable trade journal once it's finished.
I found that the reference librarians can be extremely helpful and the automated databases to be a necessary evil (every so often the formatting and interface designs would get revamped so you have to keep reteaching yourself how to use them).
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Thorn Posted Jul 19, 2012
Thanks. What makes it the more galling to me is they (my relatives) have never once bothered to look at any of my work and it isn't in a field they know so above all that they aren't really qualified to be trying to evaluate my skill in something. That doesn't hold them back though from their destructive criticism. If it was constructive criticism it would be ways to improve what you are doing not just that they assume it is terrible and lousy and you should do something else before even seeing it.
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Thorn Posted Jul 19, 2012
thanks Lil. I'm almost done now. Just submitting in the more polished later drafts so my research professor has something decent to go off of.
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Elektragheorgheni -Please read 'The Post' Posted Jul 20, 2012
Sounds great Thorn. Any news on this? It sounds really interesting. Hope you get it published. I'm glad that the reference librarians were of use to you. They are usually up-to-date with sci-tech stuff but are less useful to humanity students.
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Thorn Posted Jul 22, 2012
Thanks well it still has to go through peer review but final destination is hopefully an australian entymology or ecology journal or the university press.
My dad is properly chuffed about it, says he thinks he should have been a scientist and that I should quit to go become a janitor then kill myself and how much my life insurance policy is worth.
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Tavaron da Quirm - Arts Editor Posted Jul 22, 2012
Sounds like your best plan i to move away from home as soon as you can afford it. Your dad really should not make your life so miserable, that's not what family is there for.
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Thorn Posted Jul 23, 2012
Thanks.
Yup, [I] need to save up to scrounge enough to afford rent someplace...
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- 3: lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned (Jul 12, 2012)
- 4: Tavaron da Quirm - Arts Editor (Jul 12, 2012)
- 5: Thorn (Jul 19, 2012)
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- 7: Malabarista - now with added pony (Jul 19, 2012)
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- 9: lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned (Jul 19, 2012)
- 10: Elektragheorgheni -Please read 'The Post' (Jul 20, 2012)
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- 14: Tavaron da Quirm - Arts Editor (Jul 22, 2012)
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