h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

There are some things that, although obvious, should be stated here. Especially when we are stressed we tend to forget them:

1. Always be professional. There is rarely need for you to let yourself down to the level of your harrasser. Always try to make your words and actions above reproach.

2. Hold your ground wherever possible, and without emotion, if you can.

3. Use your union or professional organization. That's what they are there for. Avoid one-on-one encounters, especially with a bully boss. You are entitled to representation, or at very least a witness, and advice. This does not diminish or compromise you. It's professional.

4. Cover your actions with paper. Document encounters and responses. (The pen really is mightier, if you use it.)

5. Remember that beyond whatever limited rights you have as an employee, you have rights as a citizen. They are not negotiable. Your legal rights are guaranteed; and bullies, harrassers, and organizations are usually cowed by any formal reference to them.

Sometimes we need to remind ourselves of these things. I think they make harrassment very much more difficult.

This is not a sermon, but a meditation.

Be happy in your work.