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Duties of bridesmaids and others
Mojo's big stick Started conversation Jun 28, 2003
It's lovely to be asked to be a bridesmaid, but there's more to it than a pretty (!) frock. It is also an honour and a duty. Many brides pick a couple of grown-up friends as maids so they can help out. Duties may include:
Helping the bride get ready, (and supplying stiff drinks if needed),
Keeping the teeny flower girls amused and under control,
Keeping the Mothers apart and persuading them the bride knows best,
Distracting drunk relatives when they are about to be vulgar,
Dancing with everyone to get the party going,
Running, fetching and carrying for the bride. There are some things you just CAN'T do in a frock like that,
So don't just get squiffy as soon as you hit the reception and pass out on the best man. Have fun, but stay on duty. Your effort can help make it a magic day for your friend.
Mojo (the perennial bridesmaid)
P.S. NEVER complain about your dress. It's not worth it. The bride is always right.
P.P.S I assume this list applies for the ushers as well? Comments?
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